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Stagnant Strategies

This morning, I kept hearing a thudding sound coming from the kitchen area of my home. 

To my horror, I immediately thought an appliance was going out, but it was quiet when I walked into the kitchen.  The dining room too was silent, though just outside the window I saw a cute little bird on a Japanese Maple bush just a few inches from the window. The bird retreated further into the branches upon seeing me.

Perplexed by the mystery sound, and still hoping it wasn’t an appliance that sensed my presence, I thought, That was weird! and went back to what I was doing.  

Within a few minutes I heard:

Thud! Thud! Thud!

What is going on?  

The thudding continued as I stealthily walked back in the same area and heard the thudding clearly coming from outside that window. 

I couldn’t believe what I was seeing! 

That cute little bird, that couldn’t have weighed more than a couple of ounces, kept trying to fly in through the window and ricocheting off the glass, then landing on the Japanese Maple branches over and over.  It must have done it 20 times all together from the first time I heard it.

“What are you after, little guy, that you’d be willing to repeatedly hurt yourself?” I said through the glass.  The bird again retreated into the branches when it saw me.    

I have two parakeets each bigger than that bird and know how fragile they are. I can’t imagine that thudding felt good. I closed the curtain and the thudding stopped.

You’d think that first thud would have been enough to deter the bird from trying again. 

This reminded me too much of the times I kept going back to a detrimental relationship or situation because I thought,  

Maybe this time things will work out better If I just try harder.

Have you gone back to the same harmful person or situation hoping for a change when clearly there was no indication anything had changed at all?

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Warmly,

Elizabeth

By ~ Elizabeth Yalian 2013-2025 ©http://hiseyeisonthissparrowtoo.com

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When Taking Care of You Is Gold to Your Soul

You know those times when you think everything is finally okay with you only to realize you still have a ways to go to get to the real you buried under life’s rubble?

You know you are there when the slightest request feels like a major overhaul. For me, those times equated to days when my best attempt at prayer was limited to whispering Jesus’ name.

When I tried to get back to blogging then, I found myself still hanging on by a thread and needing to recoup from decades of distressing setbacks that overwhelm a person to the point there’s very little energy for much else.

I thank God for the healing I have received the last few years as I attempted to recover through prayer, self-help methods, and a lot of thinking and processing what I’ve learned.

Today, I am finally free to be myself. Thank you all for hanging in there during my absence.

Major holidays have a way of leaving us dead tired when it’s all over. Make sure you look after yourself by prioritizing your well being.

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!

Elizabeth

By ~ Elizabeth Yalian 2013-2025 ©http://hiseyeisonthissparrowtoo.com

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